The School Uniform That Will Never Be Worn

Most parents in most big cities put their children’s names down at prestigious private schools, sometimes before they’re even born.  They hand over large sums of money (which is non-refundable) to ensure their child’s place is secured.

A spot at a school that no doubt their mum or dad went to and potentially their parents.

And in this moment the parent creates a belief that one day their child will walk into that school, wearing that uniform and being part of that legacy.

The belief is so strong that it no longer is a belief but rather a knowing that their child will attend that school.

So, as their child takes their first steps and slowly develops, the parent is presented with data that yes, their child will in fact attend that school.

Then comes the autism diagnosis.

Their  world suddenly crashes down around them.  Their beliefs, their values, their thoughts are no longer what they used to be.  Thoughts of a bright hopeful future has now turned to thoughts of fear, overwhelm and stress.

And as this parent picks up their autistic child from their special needs school, they stop at the stop lights only to see children the same age as their child wearing that uniform, living that life, with a knowing that they were doing what was expected of them.

And as the students cross from one side of the street to the other, the parents throat closes up, tears well up in their eyes and the yearning for a different version enters their head. They’re overcome with grief, sadness, devastation.

They look in the rearview mirror, to see their beautiful child happily stimming away, at peace with their day.

The parent clears their throat, wipes the tears away with a knowing that although their child’s future isn’t how they imagined it….it would still be something magical, something to bear witness to.   For that child in the backseat will change the world in their way, in their time…we just need to be the conduit and make it happen.

If you’ve gone through this in the past or currently in the midst of it, let’s chat.  Let’s walk through the big feelings that come with yet another big change, yet another heartbreak.  Let’s navi

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Podcast Episode #49: Making haircuts easier for kids with Autism

Introducing Henry Tribes. Henry created the Weighted Cape after experiencing the calming effects of a weighted blanket. He realized the same concept could transform hair cutting capes into comforting tools, especially for children who struggle with sensory overload during appointments.

What began as a small idea quickly grew into a meaningful innovation, helping kids feel more secure and at ease in the barber’s chair.

While not a medical device, the cape makes everyday moments like haircuts feel safer and more manageable for children with unique needs.

Today, Henry is a Sensory Safe Certified barber in Downtown Dallas. He specializes in sensory-friendly haircuts for neurodivergent children, using patience, creativity, and empathy to redefine inclusive grooming and set a new standard in the industry.

To listen to the podcast episode, click here.

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